Hi Barnaby,
I am a natural brunette, but when I went out with some friends drinking the other night I decided to wear a blonde wig because I was bored with my hair. Now I have a predicament, because I got chatting to a really cool and hot guy but never told him I was wearing a wig. At the end of the night he asked me for my number, so I gave it to him thinking he’d probably never call anyway. But he texted me this morning asking me out and now I don’t know what to do. I really want to see him again but am worried he’ll think I’m a weirdo if I tell him about the wig. What would you do?
Alexa
Hey Alexa,
The problem you have to face up to is that this guy may just like blondes. I’m afraid that no matter what we say, the majority of us guys do have a preference in hair colour that we are drawn to. It would be a huge risk to turn up with your natural hair now as you barely know each other, and seeing as you were both drinking the chances are that he probably doesn’t remember your face in full detail. So, although it’s a bit odd, I’d say to wear the wig again when you meet up, see how the date goes, and if you seem to be getting on really well and he likes you then let him know the truth. Maybe drop in a few well-placed questions on how important he deems hair colour to be beforehand if you can. If he fancies you for more than just a bit of fun then it will probably add to the allure, as we all like a bit of dress-up now and then.
Cheers,
barnaby
My suggested Soundtrack:
Devil’s Haircut – Beck
Yard Of Blonde Girls – Jeff Buckley
Suicide Blonde – Inxs
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